Rarely can a three-hour podcast hold my attention. But Chris Williamsonâs conversation with Naval Ravikant did, in part because of the mic-dropping moment nestled near the end:
âThe currency of life isnât money. Itâs not even time. Itâs attention.â
Iâm not sure there is a modern wisdom saying that better encapsulates the battle we all face in the frenetic information age in which we find ourselves.
Why âCurrency of Lifeâ Isnât Money or Time
âMoney is important,â Naval explains, âand letâs you trade certain things for time, but it doesnât really buy you time.â
He invites us to ask Warren Buffett or Michael Bloomberg if they can buy more time. (Iâll be sure to send them a note.) And while access to good medical care is certainly a financial hurdle for many, the point is well taken: Even the richest person on their deathbed canât buy themselves another day of life.
âTime itself doesnât even mean that much,â Ravikant continues, âbecause the time can be wasted because youâre not really present for it. Youâre not really paying attention.â
And thatâs where the killer question hits us right in the gut:
How are we spending our attention? How are you?
A Real-Time Reminder
I need look no further than yesterday to recall a moment where I found myself checking X and LinkedInâwhile in the presence of my 19-month-old daughter, who resorted to irresistible adorableness to reclaim my attention. âHug?â she asked, reaching her little arms in my direction. âKiff?â (Her vernacular for kiss.)
She offered instantaneous forgiveness, while I lamented the fact that Iâd have to make this confession public, because the example is all too perfect for the point Iâm making now:
Unlike money, our time is a true zero-sum game. We can make more money in a myriad of ways, but each minute expires at the end of 60 seconds, regardless of the health of our cash flow or net worth statements.
Busyness as a Badge: An Attention Trap
How much of this most precious of currencies do we fritter away every day? Even those among us who may be inclined to wear our busyness as a badge of business honor. Perhaps especially us? Do the accolades, likes, and shares compensate for the misallocation of our attention?
If youâre interested to see how 12 legit thought leaders identified how they know when theyâre too busy–and how they unbusy themselves–click HERE.
Donât get me wrongâIâm not telling you how to spend your attention. Sure, things like social media and video games might be easy targets for examples of misallocated musing, but the potentially life-changing insight illuminated here was first shared on social media, for goodnessâ sake. Furthermore, for more than a decade, my 19-year-old son has been able to spend quality hours of kinship with his cousinâ700 miles awayâevery week, thanks to the advent of collaborative video games.
The lesson isnât to eliminate, but to direct: choose the apps, the times, even the posts that reinforce your attention, not fracture it.
Ravikant addresses another low-hanging fruit for judgementalism, the negative news. We can spend our attention on the news, Ravikant concedes. âAnd if you want to, thatâs fine. Thereâs no right or wrong here.â
Itâs more about what you do with the attention we dedicate that makes the difference. âMaybe you need to pick something in the news, learn about that problem, adopt that problem, and solve it,â for example. âBut be careful,â he concludes, âbecause your attention is the only thing you have.â
This Is Not a Hustle Manifesto
Lastly, I want to conclude with what this attention acknowledgment is not: Itâs not a rallying cry for glorifying the grind or a time-driven demand to maximize every moment with (apparent) productivity. Ravikant bursts a lot of hustle-culture bubbles when he says, âHard work is really overrated. How hard you work matters a lot less in the modern economy.â (Heresy!?)
Elsewhere, he concludes that discipline is a poor substitute for genuine passion: âDiscipline is just you fighting with yourself to do something you donât want to do. So, I would say itâs more important to find something that you want to do.â
3 Questions to Reclaim Your Attention (and Your Life)
So, perhaps this is the conclusion, in the form of three questions:
- Howâand on whatâare you spending your attention?
- Is that how you truly want to spend it?
- If not, whatâs one shift that could better align your attention with your aspirations?

